"The Dream Lover"

We all dream of true and everlasting love. But our self-image dictates a person's treatment of him/herself and others. In a personal relationship that is evident; we attract the type of mate we think we deserve, our 'Dream Lover.'

The self-image acts as an unconscious life-governing device ; that if in our self-image we cannot see our selves doing something, achieving something, we literally cannot do it. In other words what we see is what we get.

There is hope, the self-image can be changed since the unconscious mind is incapable of differentiating between a real success and a success imagined again and again, vividly and in full detail. As our behaviour and performance usually are consistent with our self-image. Our self-image is an intricately woven concept made up of all our feelings, fears and emotional responses to each and every personal experience up to the present.

As with any learned activity or skill,the self-image is housed at the unconscious or automatic level of thinking. What we perceive as real is filtered or shaded differently from what others perceive, by our time-grown, robot-like self-image. What we imagine as being real, with frequency, becomes our own version of reality.

We imagine and fantasize that person we would most like to become and the robot self-image reads the script, memorizes it and acts accordingly. What does this have to do with our 'Dream Lover?' Everything!

When the romantic flame that once burned brightly dies. When the little things our significant other does loose their importance. We complain; "You know what that no good so and so did?" That no good so and so was once the love of our life. So, what happened?

The person did not change instantly. In most instances it was a gradual process or the person was always that way. But, we could not see. Why? Our perception of ourselves were distorted.


Next week I will share some tools to correct our distorted perception.

Note: I am writing this topic today and next Sunday as advised by Dianne Branch (my loving, caring, always sharing cousin).

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"Salvation is our function here."

Salvation and forgiveness are the same. They both imply that something has gone wrong; something to be saved from, forgiven for; something amiss that needs correction; something different from the Will of God. Resulting in a state of conflict between what is and what could never be.

Truth and illusions are both equal in our minds, for both have happened. Salvation becomes the border between the truth and the illusion. Salvation reflects the truth because it is the means by which we can escape illusions. The mind that sees illusions thinks they are real. They are given existence because they are thoughts. Yet they are not real, because the mind that thinks these thoughts is separate from God.

Thoughts of God could be the plan, by which the never done is overlooked, and sins forgotten which were never real. We know one thing must still be true, God is still Love, and this is not His Will. We who will work miracles, try to perceive the strength in what we say, 'Salvation is my only function here,' for these are words in which our freedom lies. Our Father Loves us. Let in the light, and we will not see obstacles to what the Creator wills for us.

It is God's Will that our minds be one with His. It is God's Will that He has one child. It is God's Will that His one child is you. Remember, 'Salvation is your only function here. Salvation and forgiveness are the same.' We have no function that is not of God. Forgive ourselves the ones we think we made. Forgiveness and salvation are the same. Forgive what we have made and we are saved.

So, let us lay forgiveness on our minds and let all fear be gently laid aside, that love may find its rightful place in us and show us that we are the Children of God. Buy the CD, 'Forgiveness the Key to Happiness' @peakform.net

"Dream Your Own Dream"

Dream your own dream
and follow your own star
There wouldn't be a heaven full of stars
if we were all meant to wish on the same one.
There will always be dreams
grander and humbler than your own
but there will never be a dream
exactly like your own
for you are unique
and more wondrous than you know!


Do your best
There are no short cuts
on the way to a dream
So give all that you have
to all that you do,
and above all things
believe in yourself.
This is all your dream asks of you,
but this is everything...

By Linda Staten

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